COMMUNICATING

20/07/2010 by admin.

For us to lead an extraordinarily good life we have to communicate, it’s no longer good enough just brooding and wishing and hoping and wondering and making assessments of life we have to commune with others in order to make it of value and worthwhile. Whether we are wealthy or poor the quality of life and our stability is down to how we live it not circumstances even though at times they weigh heavily upon us, but they are by and large transient unless we keep reinventing them or regurgitating them because we have little else to do. As people, the human condition requires contact with others for without it we go to pieces and find life a burden from which some actually never recover having allowed themselves to drop to the bottom of the ocean where the detritus lives.

The levels at which we communicate are somewhat dependent upon our character, some people are naturally flamboyant others quite dowdy and those in between try and do their best even if some haven’t a clue yet still try and make an effort. But communicating is something that’s essential and we tend naturally to communicate with those who are on our level, at times we venture out of that zone and similarly others do as we see aspects of others that excite us or give us degrees of interest, but mostly we stick to what makes us feel good and secure. There are those who will talk to anyone such is their nature and those that will latch on to others in the hope that they can use them as a conduit to get more out of life for their own selfish desires.

Communicating with others, wearing a smile, being of a happy disposition, being uplifting, not being judgmental if someone displays a trait that’s against yours or your ethos, all these little things make a difference to being accepted and to enjoying life, all these things are a reflection of our makeup and how life treats us. We can all have fixed views on life and we are all entitled to our opinions too, but where we let such things rule the roost is where we become unstuck and indeed somewhat haughty too, when that haughty attitude takes a hold life will be permanently against us. We can have our religious convictions in life and most are reasonably good, but when that forms intolerance or blatant outlandish displays it really gets everyone around annoyed and again that reduces the inter-communicational activities regarding the general populous.

If we feel too grand or aloof to talk to some or others too demanding or not the sort of person we would wish to talk to and forever keep on assimilating whose who and striking them off of our ‘OK’ list then eventually we will reduce our overall ability to talk to anyone and cut off what creative potential and knowledge we gleam from talking to others, even if at times we have to put on a brave face.  Work requires that we communicate not only to make what we do work more effective but to raise the camaraderie and ambiance of the work atmosphere which has a profound effect upon work done and the quality of such work. When life takes a tumble our best friend is our ability to communicate, and communicate well with a smile even if we are hiding the weight of the world within. We do give off vibes which others pick up and when many have their own problems to deal with they don’t want to pick up those of others especially if they have little ability to help other than just listen, but not constantly.

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