19/08/2010 by admin.

It’s somewhat strange that the arch enemy of Islam, America, as is preached the world over in Mosques, is when something of a catastrophe takes place as recently in Pakistan the USA is almost the first to offer real aid with regards tangible assistance covering a wide range of product areas such as food stuffs and hardware like helicopters and ground support. America did this many years ago too when there were earthquakes in Iran and sent rice and corn in bags labelled USA. These were not acceptable as the pride of such pathetic Arabs couldn’t’ be seen to receive help from the great arch evilness of the world America. So the grains were re-bagged in Dubai but this time sold on for local profit, so much for honesty, and this type of business happens a lot. And where are the resources from Saudi Arabia - their armed forces and hardware - they can afford it, UAE, Indonesia, Malaysia the global Muslim brotherhood, where are the gift pledges of millions of Dollars to help support their starving cousins, like those in the Islamic nusance Darfur, of course there will be some funds, it’s a must for ego if nothing else but it’s all so low key, pay someone else to do it, there’s no kudos in doing it yourself. Islamic nations are experts at criticising and asking for things but not so hot at giving anything one of the reasons is that most of them are backward themselves such is the retardant value of Islam on it’s followers. Even in the West get a small conurbation of Muslims living together and it immediately becomes a ghetto, it reduces it’s value and even starts to look “third world” and once that appearance takes a hold no one wants to go there, and then the rot sets it. Where people live gives rise to the local mentality and that mentality is crucial to either making something out of life or just living in a static and backward environment. We’ve had years of council estates proving just that. Then almost automatically there is this incessant whinging which Muslims seem to possess that they are badly treated, need support, and so on, the same picture throughout the whole of Europe, they just can’t seem to make a go of it, where this ambivalent retardant nature permanently holds the majority back from engaging in progressive life, it’s all tainted with restrictions and they live upon what others (non Muslims) have done years before.  Just go yourself to any European country and see where Muslims live and see first hand the state of the area, don’t take others words, look at it yourself as it is.

With the floods in Pakistan aid was slow in coming forward, even though it was relatively substantial, one of the reasons being that Pakistan like other Islamic countries has a very bad image. It’s 2010 and still millions are living like peasants, there is a total distrust in almost anything Islamic or connected with it. The last earthquakes in Pakistan where goodness knows how many trucks left Europe laden with goods of foodstuffs, clothes, cooking utensils, etc, much of which never reached their destinations. And when one sees the mentality of the millions of peasants living as they do cocooned in a subservient and narrow time warp of a world reacting violently to everything and anything and never ever accepting responsibility or blame, such is their endemic mentality then one has the answers. Where every-time a mere mention of anti Islam or whatever and the genetically subnormal populous are out on the streets burning effigies of someone, setting fire to the American flag (almost mandatory now) throwing a few cars on fire and shouting and screaming like some hysterical showgirls with eyes bulging out of their heads as if to explode.  And like all youths in such countries their only claim to anything of a professional nature is to throw stones. Almost a daily ritual in the West Bank, straight out from the Mosque praying for goodness knows what and let’s throw a few stones at the Israelis all very intellectual and civilised.

Even the UN has stated that Islamic countries are almost bottom in human rights, education and giving to the world, the majority taking from it. And as for the oil rich, it’s their resources that have given them wealth rather than personal creative ingenuity. Where today apprehension exists with anyone with an Islamic name comes from the fact that terrorism is almost exclusively Islamic, and that indiscriminate killing goes with the territory. That the Islamic councils keep saying that all the Muslims that do evil are not a representation of Islam, but it’s getting to the stage that it is and it’s getting worse, and there’s lots of unrest more than any other religion or organisation on the planet. Even the government in Saudi Arabia is legally looking to denigrate humanity as a revengeful act via the courts, which God do these bloody idiots worship?Listening to the same excuses and the diatribe that organisations such as the Islamic Council Of Great Britain put out voluntarily as they have no remit other than that of their own becomes dull and boring and almost smacks of failures in desperation. And as if there is such a thing that they are all God’s rejects themselves having to defend what shouldn’t have to be defended because if their doctrine runs true then love outshines, but Islamic  love is only conditional (try telling your parents you’re gay or you are to marry a Jew), and freedom is a word which makes them shiver and go cold. If these people spoke about democracy in Saudi Arabia or Iran they would be toast by now, but abusing your host country is all fair game. One would like to interview them in public in front of a lie detector, either side being allowed to say or ask as they feel and actually get some truths out of them pertaining to all aspects of Islam and failure and terrorism and see what they actually have to say, not hiding behind smart words. If truth persists then there is nothing to hide.

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17/08/2010 by admin.

We all go through phases of one sort or another, or possibly a fad too, but whatever it is, we go through them, some good some not so good and some, well, we’d rather forget. When life seems to be going well  even the wet cold damp days seem to shine for us as life is on our terms, we just think of pleasant thoughts and are more than charitable to those who ‘get on our nerves’ thinking that we know better  even if we don’t. But the flip side of all of that, the flip side of positive emotions isn’t that wholesome nor that rosy either, it’s tainted with aspects of life that grate on us and thwart our desire to go forward. The negativity of life has no bounds and it holds neither prisoners nor keeps enemies, it does just what it wants to do and it does it in its own sweet time and has no compunction as to the depths it plunges and for how long. The human condition has long since been categorised and quantified and qualified by supposedly learned people none of which have an answer as to why some do well and do very little and others slog themselves to death and get almost if nothing at all out of life. But whatever we do whether we are scientists used to failing every day and eventually hit on something of enormous benefit for mankind, or at a more domestic level households doing their best to keep afloat regardless of circumstances, there comes a point and a time which is the tipping point, where things change. We like to think that things change for the better, but there’s no guarantee that that will be the case or that it’s an automatic assumption after a bout of negativity in all quarters.

The “tipping pint” however only comes with persistence and perseverance, and the more we show our true grit and metal the better the turnaround and the more we put ourselves out and about the chances of the tipping point happening sooner rather than later.  However getting to that “tipping point” which comes at no pre-determined time also houses a lot of frustration, sleepless nights, anxiety, self doubt, life challenged and it heightens the smallest of things which would under normal circumstances be of no or trivial value. Whether we re-invent ourselves, re-discover ourselves or just hope that the life changes we are looking for will materialise at a point closer to where we are now is dealt with by shifting our attitude and not grasping on straws or making up scenarios to make things fit. Regardless of what we are going through if we don’t by and large enjoy where we are right here when the tipping point comes we will immediately find something else to take away the pleasure of a better ambiance and heightened situation. We will think that OK things have got better but I still need this n’ that n’ something else so by our own hand we will extend the doldrums in a habitual way until we eventually become moribund and lacking in total cause and kudos.

We can with many things in life affect the chances we have or the odds we have of improving our lot, if we do nothing then we open up the opportunity for random acts to take place and our chances of anything good happening are reduced to practically nothing. Alternatively we can enhance our chances and bring that ‘tipping point’ somewhat nearer to our wishes by enacting and communing with life in all manner of ways, but by being active we at least are a part of life and not part of an audience waiting for the show to start. Of course what we get when the tipping pointy takes place may not be exactly what we are looking for but never the less being positive in mind we can often surf that wave of opportunity as opposed to watching it hit the shore empty and then realising we’ve missed the boat too.  

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16/08/2010 by admin.

There are many states of depression, some clinical needing professional help and possibly medication, others of a temporary nature that we allow circumstances to induce us into or in some cases bring on of our own accord. Our attitude to life plays a very large part in how we perceive life and thus how we react to it, so it’s imperative that we do look at the positive side of life no matter how dark it seems for if we give in to the darkness it will subsume our whole being. The chances are if we come from a negative family we may have tendencies to be negative unless we have seen the light and changed our attitude, and if we come from a positive family we will always have a tendency to look at the bright side of life no matter how difficult that may be at certain times. Self induced depression is probably the most common in that we concentrate on the problem and not the solution, when we do that we shut out possibilities, ways and means of seeing the way out and anything else that’s on offer to alleviate the situation. Being narrow minded and arrogant with it is a terrible thing the times one hears the phrase “I’ve tried everything” which is a load of old rubbish, a pack of lies and denotes a degree of mental stupidity. You’ve only tried what you know, what you don’t know and haven’t tried to find out or re-hash is always amazingly varied and broad and often has solutions that you never even knew existed. And if you think “How can I do what I don’t know” then you are more thick and stupid than originally thought.

Our outlook towards our friends, family, and indeed anyone else has to be balanced towards who they are and their way of life. There will always be those who seemingly sail through life and those who seemingly plough through it, we of course always compare with those who seemingly sail through life and never those who ploughing through it, such is human nature. But it’s just this mentality that removes our focus from what we have to do and when our focus is removed it’s replaced by fear, anxiety, tension, loss, consternation, doubt, dread, and all the other negative emotions and effects that are lurking within our mind. When we are happy our negative emotions are a very low priority, as soon as we change stance and our mind goes into “poor old me” mode they emerge and all the good and positive emotions and thus lowered into a place where it’s hard to retrieve them. But we must bear in mind that it’s us that has deliberately caused this effect, as much as we would like to blame circumstances or anything else we can apportion blame to, it’s still us that has effected the imbalance within, then we feel sorry for ourselves and change attitude our voice is less vibrant, all the usual pathetic stuff that one does for sympathy, and sympathy is as empty as the Queens’s handbag.

Making an effort no matter how hard it is really does make a difference, and like our muscles if we cease to exercise them we become weak and listless and eventually later in life become really quite disadvantaged as we will not be able to move freely anymore. Our mind is just the same, if we give in and try for the sympathy approach, or get into a broody stance or melancholic approach we will by our own hand negate the value of whom we are and that will thwart any opportunity and creativity we have or are indeed offered as our interest and ability to see potential will be lost.  Our minds can be fragile at times, but they are still underneath a real powerhouse of growth, creativity and unlimited ability, we control our life and whom we are and not circumstances, which is where so many make the biggest mistake of their lives by bowing down to circumstances and not saying “Hey I’m in charge of my life, not circumstances, no matter what I’m still going to be positive” which is a sign of self respect too.

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15/08/2010 by admin.

It’s strange really that the biggest hurts we can get are from the smallest of things, it’s not often that big things that can topple us as we seem to get to grips with whatever it is, it’s the small things, the little indiscretions, forgetfulness, snide remarks, inferences, it can in fact be anything, and we all get upset about different things. What one person may think is fine another may take to task and brood over it for an age. Of course there are two sides to every story, and it’s not always the instigator of the misdemeanor or thoughtlessness that is the culprit, it could be the totally self centred and selfish attitude of the recipient who thinks about themselves more than anyone else, so when things don’t go quite as expected they get upset, this is not an uncommon situation. Some people are naturally thoughtful and others are not, in fact some are down right thoughless which doesn’t make them bad people but possibly a little infuriating to be with. We also must be true and honest with our-self too, if we do things and expect a reciprocation because of it we are not as nice as we think we are, goodness should not have an afterthought nor await a hidden or expected deed from someone else to ‘balance’ things out, life isn’t like that. It may well be that others do reciprocate but that’s more from who they and their own thoughtfulness and not from an unread duty or condition.

Having said all of that we all like to feel wanted and appreciated, especially by certain people, again some people are more demonstrative than others so pure deeds and thoughts do not necessarily denote greater affection or deeper empathy or anything else we may like to read into it. Some people are naturally effusive and kind others are naturally reticent and reserved or is it just plain mean, so we have to find out who we are as to how we view any kind of action towards us. The bottom line however is that most of us respond to kind deeds and personal kind deeds at that, those touches of thoughtfulness and empathy which strikes us within with that warm and pleasant feeling and it can be from anyone. Between our loved ones and best friend(s) we expect that a certain degree of thoughtfullness exists because they are special, even though the deeds done to each other may be somewhat uneven, never the less we know what each other does for the other is well meant and purposeful and personal and comes from a good place. We don’t need to lose our cool if others don’t do as we would do, what they do do could be all they can, and if that’s the case then for them it’s 100%, and you can’t inflict on to others what you feel is right or not, if you do you are no better than what you are trying to correct. So many people get upset and hurt at what they think others should do or shouldn’t't that they almost shoot themselves in the foot getting physically annoyed at the fact.

Anything done from the heart is good, there’s no value to how much or how often as it depends upon the person andf circumstances, anything that’s done to “butter someone up” is divisive even if the gesture is nice in itself, you don’t have to work out if you’ve been in that situation or not. Relationships with our partners holds different values than they do with our friends or acquaintances or colleagues, and it’s possible that our best friend is more outgoing with doing “little things” for us than our partner, but that in no way suggests that our partner doesn’t love or think of us any less or that our best friend thinks about us more, and if we start to “emotionally blackmail” our partner saying “why don’t you do this or that” like so and so, it really spells out what a selfish and self centred and shallow person we are deep down, we show our real true colours. In fact anyone who uses emotional blackmail at whatever level isn’t a good person at all, they are usually good at telling lies and feigning tears or emotions to get what they want. If you are ever in doubt about doing a good deed for someone, do it, even if they don’t or possibly can’t acknowledge it as such, just do it for you, often the doing of the deed elevates the self way beyond the ‘ordinary’ aspects of life and that is always a good thing, never be ordianry always exceed the norm that way you’ll always have a positive presence in life.

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15/08/2010 by admin.

In some quarters it’s becoming something of a “thing to do” apportion blame of circumstance to third, fourth, fifth generation children for what when on in the past, for actions and deeds that at the time were expedient or delivered because of ideologies that then were of the moment. Where races and cultures are trying to atone and get “Sorry” for what went on as if it will make any difference whatsoever to the hear and now, and all this pathetic baloney that saying “sorry” will allow everyone to move on is beyond comprehension. The only and repeat only thing that’s holding you back is you, excuses don’t enter the equation whatsoever. Of course there are those in life who are subnormal and have an inbuilt “bee in their bonnet” about political correctness, rights, protocols, and anything else they can grab on to to fill their hollow and useless world with something to do. The unfortunate aspect of all this is that there are today few statesmen and fewer stateswomen, and because of the media image they seem to want to portray at all costs the few that seek to get a “Sorry” make waves and thus the politicians feel the need to be seen to doing something and so acquiesce and acknowledge in some form or other the deeds and actions of the past. It’s not rocket science to understand in our own lives that within our short stay on earth we make mistakes and for the majority of us we are almost all experts in the field of hindsight.

There’s nothing wrong in respecting the past for what it was, for learning from mistakes, from being proud that our relatives and fellow countrymen died for us having a better place today, that the inventors and discoverers of the past had to jump through hoops of fire in order to get their invention or discovery out and produced against the odds of the “so called” intellectuals and government idiots who know nothing and thus feel threatened by anything new. It’s a tribute to anyone who like  a salmon swims against the tide and produces or discovers anything that the general and predominantly ignorant populous can’t understand yet make full use of it when it’s produced, such is life.

History is part of life, as life goes on and time goes by we all become more and more embroiled in history itself, it goes without saying, what we feel about history before we were borne is a yet another matter, but living history, the one which we joined the day we were born and dies with us the day we die is the only personal history that we can ever lay claim to, regardless of what happens by whom for whatever reason. For the major part in life the most telling aspect of what we do lies ahead of us, it’s that that is going to carve out our onward historical claims and how we react and how others see us is a new chapter every day, whether we repeat our mistakes or do dastardly deeds it’s down to us, our life lives in our brain no where else, it doesn’t live in or with others or society at large it lives totally within our own minds.  There is but one direction in life and that is forward. The past is just that, the present in right here right now and tomorrow is where we are to go, like it or not. 

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14/08/2010 by admin.

Reinventing yourself is becoming more of a by word in today’s society than ever before, the established and staid and dull and boring and traditional are all falling apart, and if we don’t look at who we are within life we are going to fall apart too, and we can see the results of those falling apart every day, we don’t have to venture too far. Even our sedentary home-life needs at times to come up to scratch or we become slobs of our own making, couch potatoes with limited brain function soaking the flavourless diatribe that the unscrupulous broadcasters put out on daytime television for the brain dead and those who aspire to being brain dead. Life today is fast moving, financial climates make waves which by default affect those in its wake and have to surf or sink, and to surf we need to be ready to change, with the approriate surfboard. The bastion days of corporate and governmental stolidity are well over, we have to face the reality of now and not fall into intellectual conjecture as to what should be or how the government should do this or that, the government is full of humans many of whom haven’t a clue either despite some being of serious content and resolve. We have sole ownership of ourselves and that must be held fast within us at all times.

Society is slow, educational sectors are slow, any government body or  government organisation where endless committee meetings and endless consultations take place over protracted times are the bane of life, and there is always a backlash and many inappropriate people even if best intentioned running such organisations. The sparkle of immediacy and forward thinking is reduced by the “fogies” to levels which are not substantial and far more costly through inappropriate costing and layers of people than any private organisation would never tolerate or be allowed to cost out. The bottom line however is that it’s the individual that has to understand the climate of change and even be multi-skilled to the extent that the utilisation of one’s original aptitudes and learned abilities will have to be broad focused to enable the individual to accomplish what they originally would have never thought of. The problem is that very few people have that expertise to transfer that overall concept and ability as it certainly doesn’t reside in government unemployment offices which have little creativity if any, plus tons of restrictive conditions and it doesn’t exist in recruitment companies where it’s not their remit and are more mercenary and cold.    

Not everyone is an entrepreneur, some need to be guided and employed, they need to be lead and they need to have their minds opened by those who have to skill to do just that, otherwise they stagnate  and rest upon debilitated thought patterns and insular ideologies and fear. However, many such people are incredibly adept at what they do, and are even brilliant in how they work in a “safe” environment, any stress related to what they do they can cope with, stress outside of this is tantamount to them falling apart, it’s the way it is.  Reinventing yourself no matter at what or how, it’s often a journey of “self discovery” is a defined and deliberate need, it’s something that must resonate over and above everything else no matter what is going on. Logically linking aspects of life is at times like trying to mix oil and water, many areas of life have to be done concurrently and only then towards the end where degrees of resolution come together can one homogenise all and where everything forms a wholeness and a pattern which can be used for the greater good. 

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13/08/2010 by admin.

It’s not the nicest of things to happen, it blows our mind like a mini atom bomb going off inside of us, triggering all of our feelings and emotions all at one go, our minds almost disconnect from reality and we live in a place of self concocted hurt and indecision and unfathomable thoughts. Reality is not an issue as it hardly exists other than the fact that we are still alive, but only just, and interest in life whatever that is has ceased and anyway we just don’t want to know anymore as it’s immaterial and not worth it anyway. And what’s more no one understands even though others have gone through it too, it’s not the same as your heart ache, your pain is different. Well anyway, that’s an idea of what heartache is all about especially if you haven’t been through it, and it’s not a recommendation to put on your list of “things to do and experience”.  Heartache is felt differently by “blokes” as it is by girls, men see things more technically and women see things more emotionally and although each and every feeling is just as real to men and women the thought process can vary somewhat and at times neither side can see where either party is coming from or going to, and the end result is that they don’t care either because if you can’t understand then that’s the whole problem in a nutshell. So there.

It’s usually worse for the person who is let down than the person who lets the other down, as the latter has usually a premeditated thought which tends to buffer them from the impact and actually they have had some time to think of other things even if it’s just having time on their own to ‘chill out’ and sort themselves out, unless someone else is on the scene. It’s a complex thing and for some it’s a point where they really think that life will never be the same again, it won’t it never is, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be 100 times better either, so there’s always a flip side to the way we think and the way we stilt our conversations towards a goal that seems always out of reach. It’s not rocket science either that relationships brake down in particular at an early age and also for those who are single and 30+, where mind thought is the biggest culprit to having a relationship as is staying single at the same time and compromise is always an issue. Usually the woman feeling she has to compromise more than the man, unless it’s a gay relationship, but it’s usually one partner that acquiesces, and not necessarily for the worse either, that’s something to think of and not the egotistical side of “why should I” which is a ‘kiss of death’ attitude.

It’s rare not to get over a broken heart, even if it takes time. And all this “I’m sceptical about any new relationship I’ve been let down before or worse, too often before” etc, is rubbish, it’s self centred and selfish and maybe with that attitude it’s you that was part of the break up cause in the first instance. And remember if you have had a number of broken hearts, failed relationships etc, the common denominator in them all is you, not your partner, so what does it all say about you. There’s nothing wrong in playing the field except that “playing” is the operative word, so expect what you get when play stops, nothing, and thus nothing is what will happen time and time again. You must be honest to both yourself and others that way any let down will be be lightened as it will have a purpose and not just “it was fun whilst it lasted” which is why many “have a go” relationships are just that, shallow and hollow from the outset.

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12/08/2010 by admin.

Loneliness can almost be an illness in itself, the mental pressures brought about by the inability to commune with fellow man are quite severe and the psychological aspect of all of this wears very heavy in the mind. With bottled up thoughts, lack of reciprocal feelings for or with others, no camaraderie, no personal private love, no laughter, no banter of the mundane to the ridiculous, in short the nothingness of life alters the mind state to an extent that mind talk is the only option left in which to talk at all. People need people, even the private and almost reclusive need people, it’s a natural trait and instinct, people who are ostracised feel it deep down, people who seemingly can’t communicate well fall into a trough of an inner world and often lose the plot. Living with loneliness can almost be a job of work on its own, where the mind reasons with itself about the isolation and the hypothetical scenarios it throws up because there’s nothing else there to take its place. Even the most gregarious can be lonely, whereas those that appear soft and quiet can have a real following of deep and loyal friends who provide great comfort and presence in life. Judging from afar is a fools game and being judgmental based upon the facade in front of us possibly sums up who we are too as a person and what our own metal is made of.

Ironically we can be in the middle of a loving and warm and fun family, we can have a great best friend or mate and we can genuinely have good acquaintances around us that do care about us from a humanitarian point of view, yet deep down we are lonely, often to the extent we want to cry, we feel lost, cold, shivvering, and see those around us like ants milling around as we are cocooned in a gossamer thin bubble that just isolates us from that fresh air and zing of life itself. It can be lonely, it can be taxing and if we have any creativity it can be like being captivated within our own world forever seeking the “exit” sign taking us back into the mainstream of life where all will all of a sudden be well again, and we will be part of the bigger picture - whatever that is. But it will never happen as it’s only a mind thought and an excuse as to not finding the real solution and coming to terms with how we feel and why.

Loneliness for many is a self devised way of life, never to be admited as such, but it’s true, and one only has to see real lonely people to understand why they are as they are, which of course they can’t see themselves. There are degrees of loneliness, there is circumstantial loneliness where one is thrown into an areas of life where for example age takes it’s toll on family and friends die off and health recedes and one is left with little option than to make the best of an inactive life with few if any of one’s counterparts to share what time one has left, but that’s circumstantial. For the vast majority loneliness is self inflicted, where the endless excuses, selfishness, self centred, mean, deliberate and idealistic thoughts take their toll and plunge life into a pit whereby life always seems thwarted by some obstacle that’s of ‘mental conjecture’ and if it wasn’t that it would be something else. The lonely unfortunately have their own “time stamp” and character, even if from the outside they laugh, dance the night away, meet n’ greet others with consummate ease, then when it’s all over slump back into a mind set of the gossamer bubble and wonder when it will all change and their heart will be filled with joy, happiness and a list of other positive thoughts which currently register “void” on the inner check list. Where melancholy reigns and tears of some description are yet again clouding watering eyes as the mind drifts into yet another spasm of mild depression and consternation.

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11/08/2010 by admin.

Yes we all have multiple identities and no we are not psychotic or schizophrenic, every day we utilise who we are and our knowledge to appear more aptly and somewhat differently to whom we talk to. We can at anyone time be a son, brother, father, grandfather, friend, lover, husband, boyfriend / girlfriend, businessman / women, expert, novice, patient, student, amateur, professional, club member, etc, etc, the list goes on and on. For each and every occasion we draw on different areas of knowledge and thus utilise different traits about ourselves and what’s involved in putting ourselves forward and communicating effectively at a level commensurate with what we feel and deem expedient to that situation. How we talk to our friends is not the same as how we talk to our partners or parents as we hold different information and have different experiences and feelings and thus reflect and relate what makes that relationship what it is.

Within those identities we have a number of sub identities that forms our character and outlines our identity, it’s these traits that separate us from others or link us into a “type” whether we like it or not. Our attitude is paramount as to how we get on in life and if it’s good then we have greatness at our door it it stinks, then no one really wants to know who we are, and why should they. Our ability to be the person we need to be to others either limits us or enhances who we are, those that make excuses or have a chip on their shoulders usually do badly, all of which is self engineered even if they wouldn’t admit to such. Of course over and above our multiple identities we can assume an identity that is one of our own design, such as a confidence trickster or a disingenuous salesman or women, all of which take on a role of playing to others emotions and needs for self gain and contrived delivery of their own product or service which they hope to sell on.

The media is the ultimate in chameleon two faced-ness, where it sees everything as fair game, upholding the rights of someone until they make a mistake then tear them apart and all in a matter of a few days if that’s what it takes to make the news. Understanding life and what makes it tick is paramount to the “self” to enable it to proceed forward without the divisive thoughts of others, to see the bigger picture over and above the narrow thoughts of those who seek only self gain. The information that’s put out for us to glean at our own behest in the free society we live in by and large has little to offer other than of interest value little of that that will change or enhance our lives. We all know what we need to keep body and soul together and over and above that we can drip feed ourselves with additional material so as to not overload our minds and whatever we might be going through ourselves which may have repercussions of its own.

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11/08/2010 by admin.

Everything on the planet has an energy around it, whether it’s substantial like uranium or a pebble on our sea shore there is a base commonality that it’s made up of molecules all dashing around each other at different rates and in different quantities to produce what it’s a part of. In the air around us there is an ever increasing influx of energy, whether it’s from broadcast sources such as television, radio, mobile phones or just from the radiation given off as a byproduct of man utilising energy itself as a product source for its machines and electronic equipment. There is also energy radiating from out in space such as that of the sun, hitting us every second, and standing out in the full sun we can get toasted in minutes even though the source is 150million km away (93 million miles), such is the strength of energy.

There’s an energy around us as human beings, we radiate energy in quantum amounts, and there are energies “out there” that as yet we can’t tap into or haven’t devised equipment capable of measuring it, sometimes that energy is complex in that it transcends our current thinking and leads into areas such as thought transference, levitation, mind reading, intuition, and such like. With energy there are different types there is both good energy and bad energy and how this is defined technically is another matter, but as humans we can tap into both areas and reap the benefits or consequences of having done so. The human being is a fantastic transmitter and receiver of energy information, our mentality governs to a large extent our ability in accessing what it means, but even the most dull and dowdy at times can sense negative energy as it alerts the senses to untoward feelings within.

How we think defines much of how we live, the more open and ”lighter” our mind is free from the detritus of media, family problems and others thoughts the better we can run our own lives and make headway without encumbrances of others negativity, negativity in life is the bane of why we go wrong more often than we should, and it’s self caused. Positive energy on its own can elevate life to an extent that many are both ignorant of and don’t understand either, pre conditioned ideas and lifestyles feed on negativity and thus provide self seeded malfunction and breakdown which in turn produces disappointment and so produces it’s own implosion of life itself, sucking everything good, bad and indifferent with it. There’s no “secret” to a positive life, it is as it is, it needs no further defining, but being positive regardless of circumstances allows the human condition to tap into the benefits of the positive energy around.

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